Pairo: Conversation Cards & Questions App
A question card game for couples, friends and family. Pick a deck, put the phone between you, and swipe through questions that actually go somewhere.
- Question decks for date night, parties, family dinners and quiet evenings alone
- Action cards with real timers: eye contact, compliments, a slow dance
- Works offline. No account, no sign-up
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A look inside the app
How Pairo works
Choose who you are with: your partner, a group of friends, your family, or just yourself.
Pick a deck that fits the mood, from light and silly to the conversations you keep putting off.
Swipe. One card, one question, one of you asks. Every so often an action card sets a timer and gives you something to do instead.
The decks, with sample questions
Every deck is a hundred original questions, and the first cards in each one are free. These are real cards from the app.
Couples games
Six decks for two people, from a first laugh to the things you have never said out loud.
- If we could teleport anywhere for dinner tonight, where are we going?
- Which fictional couple are we most like, honestly?
- What would the title of a movie about our relationship be?
- What made you realize you liked me as more than a stranger?
- What's something you were nervous to tell me but glad you did?
- What does your ideal ordinary Tuesday with me look like?
- When was the last time you cried, and what was it about?
- What's a fear you carry that you rarely admit?
- What part of yourself are you still learning to love?
- What's your favorite memory of us that you replay in your head?
- What's something I did this month that made you feel loved?
- What do you brag about me to other people?
- What did we do early on that we should start doing again?
- What adventure should we plan before this year ends?
- What's something new you'd like us to learn together?
- When do you feel most attracted to me?
- What's a moment I charmed you without meaning to?
- What's a dream date with me you've never told me about?
Meeting & party
Icebreaker cards for first dates, friend groups and rooms full of people who just met.
- What are you actually looking for right now — honestly?
- What's your biggest green flag that people overlook?
- What do you pretend to be more okay with than you are?
- What was your first impression of each person here?
- Which of us would survive longest in a zombie movie, and why?
- Who in this group has changed the most since you met them?
- What's your honest first impression of me?
- Do I seem like more of a planner or an improviser?
- What do you think I do for a living? Guess before I tell you.
Deep conversation
For family tables, teams, and the people working through an ending.
- What were you like at my age?
- What's something you never told me about your childhood?
- What's the hardest decision you made for this family?
- What's the best team you've ever been part of, and why did it work?
- How do you prefer to receive feedback — direct or cushioned?
- What kind of work makes you lose track of time?
- What do you miss more — the person or the routine?
- What did that relationship teach you about what you need?
- What's something you can do now that you couldn't do then?
Solo
Questions to sit with on your own, with a notebook or without.
- What do you like most about who you're becoming?
- What compliment do you have the hardest time believing?
- What would you do today if you fully trusted yourself?
- What apology are you still waiting for?
- What apology do you owe that you haven't given?
- What would forgiving them actually cost you?
Quiz here, conversation there
The quizzes on this site are a guessing game: one of you answers, the other guesses, and you see the score. They are good at showing you where you do not know each other. Pairo is for what comes next. It does not keep score and there are no right answers, only questions you take turns asking out loud. Couples use it as a date night card game, friends use it as a party icebreaker, and families use it at the dinner table to get past “how was your day”.
If you came here looking for questions to ask your partner, deep conversation starters, or a couples card game you can play on one phone, the app is the longer version of what you just played. Try a quiz first if you like: How well do you know me?, Deep questions or Date night.
Frequently asked questions
- Is Pairo free?
- Yes, it is free to download and every deck opens with free cards. Pairo Premium is optional and unlocks every deck in full, plus the decks added later.
- Is Pairo only for couples?
- No. There are decks for couples, for friends and parties, for family, for work teams, and for playing alone.
- Do we both need to install the app?
- No. Pairo is played on one phone. Put it between you and take turns reading the cards.
- Do we need an account or internet?
- No. There is no sign-up, and the cards work offline.
- Is it available on Android and iPhone?
- Yes. Pairo is on the App Store for iPhone and iPad, and on Google Play for Android.
- What languages does Pairo support?
- English, Turkish, German, Spanish and more. The app follows your phone's language.
- How is the app different from the quizzes on this site?
- The quizzes are a guessing game with a score. Pairo has no score: it is a deck of questions you ask each other out loud.
- Is Pairo good for long distance couples?
- Yes. Open the same deck on a video call and take turns asking. For playing at different times, the quizzes on this site work by sending a link.