Communication Quiz for Couples

How you each want to be spoken to.

About this quiz

A free communication quiz for couples. Answer honestly, send the link, and find out how differently you each want to be spoken to.

The questions in this deck

Every question below is asked about you, and your partner has to guess how you answered.

  1. How do I prefer to be given bad news?
  2. How direct am I when something matters?
  3. What do I do when I don't want to talk?
  4. Be told everything as it happens or be told once it's settled
  5. What makes me feel listened to?
  6. How do I ask for help?
  7. What do I do when you're talking about something I don't understand?
  8. How much do I need things said out loud?
  9. What's my tell that I'm not really listening?
  10. How do I react to being told I've upset you?
  11. A hard conversation now or a slow resentment later
  12. What do I find hardest to put into words?
  13. How comfortable am I with silence between us?
  14. What kind of question gets a real answer from me?
  15. How do I let you know I've missed you?
  16. What do I do when I disagree in front of other people?
  17. Be corrected privately or be corrected honestly whenever
  18. What do I need before a serious conversation?
  19. How often do I say what I actually mean?
  20. What's the phrase I use when I'm not fine?
  21. What do I want you to do when I'm venting?
  22. How do I prefer to make a decision together?
  23. What makes me shut down completely?
  24. Say too much or say too little
  25. How well do I read your mood?
  26. What do I wish you'd ask me more?
  27. How do I handle being praised?
  28. What's my worst communication habit?
  29. What do I need to hear when I'm anxious?
  30. What would improve how we talk tomorrow?

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