Before the Next Visit Quiz

Counting down. Work out what you both actually want from it.

About this quiz

A free quiz for long distance couples before a visit. Answer about yourself, send the link, and plan the trip without a single argument.

The questions in this deck

Every question below is asked about you, and your partner has to guess how you answered.

  1. What do I want most from the first hour together?
  2. How much do I want the visit planned out?
  3. What do I dread about the trip?
  4. A short visit soon or a long visit further away
  5. What's the one thing I want us to do?
  6. How do I feel about meeting your friends this time?
  7. What do I always pack that I don't need?
  8. How much do I need time alone during a visit?
  9. What's the first meal I want us to have?
  10. What would make the visit feel real rather than like a holiday?
  11. Stay at yours or stay somewhere neutral
  12. What do I worry about before every visit?
  13. How long does it take me to feel normal with you again?
  14. What do I want to bring you?
  15. How do I handle the last day?
  16. What do I want to talk about in person that we avoid on calls?
  17. Spend the visit just us or split it between your people and us
  18. What's my ideal pace for a visit?
  19. How badly do I take the goodbye?
  20. What do I do on the journey there?
  21. What's the thing I always forget to say in person?
  22. What would make the trip worth the cost, whatever happens?
  23. What do I want the last night to be?
  24. Extend this visit by two days or bring the next one forward by two weeks
  25. How much do I want photos from the visit?
  26. What do I want to have agreed before I leave?
  27. What's the thing about your place I like most?
  28. What do I do the day after getting home?
  29. What would I change about how we do visits?
  30. What do I want you to know before I arrive?

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