How We Argue Quiz

The useful one. Find out what the other actually needs.

About this quiz

A free quiz about how you and your partner argue. Answer honestly, send the link, and compare what you each think is happening.

The questions in this deck

Every question below is asked about you, and your partner has to guess how you answered.

  1. What do I do in the first minute of an argument?
  2. How long do I hold on to something?
  3. What do I actually want when I'm angry with you?
  4. Finish it tonight or come back to it tomorrow
  5. What's the thing you do in an argument that hurts most?
  6. What do I do when I know I'm wrong?
  7. How much does the volume of a voice affect me?
  8. How do I signal that I'm done arguing?
  9. What's the argument we keep having?
  10. What would help me most mid-argument?
  11. Be told I'm wrong plainly or be let off the hook
  12. What do I do after we've made up?
  13. How likely am I to apologise first?
  14. What makes me escalate?
  15. How do I feel about arguing in front of others?
  16. What do I do with things I'm annoyed about but haven't said?
  17. An honest argument or a peaceful silence
  18. What's my tell that something's wrong before I say it?
  19. How much do I need the last word?
  20. What would I never say, even angry?
  21. What do I think most of our arguments are actually about?
  22. How do I respond to being criticised by you?
  23. What do I need before I can talk properly?
  24. Be asked what's wrong or be given room until i say
  25. How much do past arguments come back to me?
  26. What would make me feel the argument was resolved?
  27. What's the worst thing about how I argue?
  28. What do I do if you cry?
  29. What would I want us to agree on now?
  30. What's the thing I've never said after an argument?

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