Love Language Quiz for Couples

How you give it, and how you want it back.

About this quiz

A free love language quiz for couples. Answer about yourself, send the link, and find out how well your partner reads what you need.

The questions in this deck

Every question below is asked about you, and your partner has to guess how you answered.

  1. What makes me feel most loved?
  2. How do I most naturally show love?
  3. How much do words actually land with me?
  4. Be told every day or be shown once a month
  5. What would I notice if it stopped?
  6. What kind of gift means something to me?
  7. What do I do when you've had a bad day?
  8. How comfortable am I saying how I feel out loud?
  9. What's the most meaningful thing you could do this week?
  10. What kind of touch matters most to me?
  11. An hour of undivided attention or a whole day together with distractions
  12. What makes me feel unseen?
  13. How much do I need to be thanked?
  14. What would I rather have on a hard day?
  15. How do I react to a compliment?
  16. What's the effort I most appreciate?
  17. Be looked after or be trusted to manage
  18. What do I do when I'm feeling distant?
  19. How easily do I ask for what I need?
  20. What would make me feel prioritised?
  21. What's the phrase I most want to hear?
  22. How do I feel about public affection?
  23. How much does a small kind act outweigh a big gesture?
  24. What do I give too much of, without thinking?
  25. Be understood without explaining or be asked and get to explain
  26. What makes me feel taken for granted?
  27. What's my instinct when you're upset with me?
  28. What would I want written on a note in my bag?
  29. How much do I like being surprised with affection?
  30. What do I think love mostly is?

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